relationship question?

[deerslayer01]

If u had a choice between staying with your wife and being not so happy with her and knowing if you leave it will crush her heart..or would you wanna leave to be with someone who makes you happy and can't get out of your head and everytime your with her u feel comfert, and u feel like nothing can touch the both of you..almost feel indistructable

[DBuck]

Hey Sally... Try dear abby

[Axiom]

 

Hey Sally... Try dear abby

 

 

   

 

 

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sm9yle5w9Xc

 

 

 

 

 

 

[deerslayer01]

I figure I'd come here and ask an adult question but I didn't know I would get childish answers

[BowTechExperience]

Wow man, I wish both of you luck. There is no easy answer for your situation. Are there young kids involved? If so, my opinion is based on what I would do and that would be to stay for the benefit of the children. Their happiness is more important than mine and I can live with it.

 

Again good luck..

[deerslayer01]

Wow man, I wish both of you luck. There is no easy answer for your situation. Are there young kids involved? If so, my opinion is based on what I would do and that would be to stay for the benefit of the children. Their happiness is more important than mine and I can live with it.

 

Again good luck..

thanks..no kids involved..the other two knuckle heads are idiots

[Axiom]

 

I figure I'd come here and ask an adult question but I didn't know I would get childish answers

 

 

 

 

 

  Sorry man, I thought it was a spoof.. spent to much time on that other forum before i was able to escape....

 

Your question is a complicated one..Only you have all the facts so,  Only you can answer it IMO.. 

[GunDogs]

Did you vowe to love her until death do you part? If so, then stick with your commitment.

[BowTechExperience]

Thats a good thing that there are no kids..

 

People fall in and out of love every day, sad but true. Honesty, though it can hurt, is usually the best direction. Maybe there is something lost in your current relationship with your wife that can be found.

 

Married long?

[BowTechExperience]

Did you vowe to love her until death do you part? If so, then stick with your commitment.

 

GunDogs, if there were kids I would agree 100% with you, and I understand where you come from with the statement, but without kids then there is nothing to keep a person grounded in the relationship. What is worst, a cheating husband going behind his wifes back, or to seperate and both can begin a hopefully new life and both can be happy.  This is a bad situation for all three of them. A person stuck in a relationship without love can lead to bad things mentally unless resolved either way. Just my opinion..

[robnj]

for better or worse till death do you part.

[robnj]

GunDogs, if there were kids I would agree 100% with you, and I understand where you come from with the statement, but without kids then there is nothing to keep a person grounded in the relationship. What is worst, a cheating husband going behind his wifes back, or to seperate and both can begin a hopefully new life and both can be happy.  This is a bad situation for all three of them. A person stuck in a relationship without love can lead to bad things mentally unless resolved either way. Just my opinion..

love is sacrificing your wants and needs for others. not the good feeling  you feel.

[Palawman30]

If u had a choice between staying with your wife and being not so happy with her and knowing if you leave it will crush her heart..or would you wanna leave to be with someone who makes you happy and can't get out of your head and everytime your with her u feel comfert, and u feel like nothing can touch the both of you..almost feel indistructable

 

 

How old are you? How long have ya been married?

[BHC]

Tough spot to be in and there is no right or wrong answer as everyone has their own situation. Best of luck

[Palawman30]

Honestly my answer would be keep them both and have fun with both/same time and im being dead serious. If that doesn't work for them or you then you have a decision to make. To me it seems pretty simple  and yes Ive been there.