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Advice to all men considering marriage...find the right woman or they will ruin you in more ways than you can imagine

Simple Just don't marry them, you don't have to be married to have a honest relationship.

 

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Advice to all men considering marriage...find the right woman or they will ruin you in more ways than you can imagine

They can be vewy, vewy twicky....Sometimes they outright pretend to be the right one, sometimes the right one becomes the wrong one as the years go by because you changed or because you didn't change or because she changed or any other possible reason under the sun.  With a few exceptions, for most of us, the reality is that marriage is the beginning of the end of your hunting/fishing/etc. career.  It might start in a month or it might take many years but 90% of all women will expect a significant reduction in outdoor pursuits. The other 8% are OK with it because they're banging someone else while you are away & 2% are the dream women that the rest of us only wish we had met. 

 

My advice is never involve the government in your personal affairs unnecessarily.  Never, never, never.  It's OK to get married, have a big party, she can wear a white dress & pretend she's a virgin bride, etc. as long as it isn't a legally recognized marriage.  Most women won't go for that because once legally married, you gain nothing & stand to lose almost everything while she gains the right to half or more of everything you currently own, will own in the future & maybe even to collect alimony for life from you.  Of course she'll say she would never do that to you & most likely she means that now.  That doesn't mean she won't change her tune 6 months, 2 years or 10 years down the road.

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They can be vewy, vewy twicky....Sometimes they outright pretend to be the right one, sometimes the right one becomes the wrong one as the years go by because you changed or because you didn't change or because she changed or any other possible reason under the sun.  With a few exceptions, for most of us, the reality is that marriage is the beginning of the end of your hunting/fishing/etc. career.  It might start in a month or it might take many years but 90% of all women will expect a significant reduction in outdoor pursuits. The other 8% are OK with it because they're banging someone else while you are away & 2% are the dream women that the rest of us only wish we had met. 

 

My advice is never involve the government in your personal affairs unnecessarily.  Never, never, never.  It's OK to get married, have a big party, she can wear a white dress & pretend she's a virgin bride, etc. as long as it isn't a legally recognized marriage.  Most women won't go for that because once legally married, you gain nothing & stand to lose almost everything while she gains the right to half or more of everything you currently own, will own in the future & maybe even to collect alimony for life from you.  Of course she'll say she would never do that to you & most likely she means that now.  That doesn't mean she won't change her tune 6 months, 2 years or 10 years down the road.

I'm guessing you've been divorced...

 

I guess I'm just a lucky guy and got one of those special 2% women.  I've been with her for 14 years.  We've been married for 7.  No real issues to speak of.  We do a ton of shit together.  She is super athletic and was a college athlete, so we hike, bike, lift, do yoga, etc together.  She loves to come hunting with me, although with a 3 year old at home that has become more difficult.  She encourages me to get out and do what I want to do when she isn't able to.  She loves to fish.  She is in to awesome music. We like to travel and do all sorts of fun shit.  She is 38 and still looks amazing in a bikini.  I really couldn't ask for more.  

 

For me, marriage was a once in a lifetime thing.  I wasn't going to put a ring on just any chick's finger.  I ended a lot of relationships with great girls because I knew I didn't want to marry them.  I don't want to get divorced.  If for some reason we do get divorced, I'll never get married again

 

I think that far too many guys get married to girls because they're unexperienced in the world or they're just happy they found someone else to play with their crank. They propose because that is what they think they should do or because that is what their friends are doing.  I'm not that kind of person, and I wasn't going to make those mistakes.  Far too many people do though and that usually ends up in the situation you described

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